Do you have or had a partner who made you doubt your reality?

Welcome to the world of gas lighters!

Abusive relationship with a gas lighting partner

Have you been in situations where your partner deny what they had said or say what they haven’t said as said? If this happens, then definitely you are dealing with a gas lighter. It is better to be extra careful with these type of partners as it will be always you are at fault. They will never accept their mistakes nor will be willing to remedy their mistakes. This makes you confused, crazy and think that your reality is faulty.

The craziest thing about gas lighters?

The craziest thing about gas lighters is that no amount of education or awareness can change them. They are the way there are. Morality is never their piece of cake.

What can you do about it?

1. Identify that they are immoral and speak out

Firstly, one should realize that the partner is a gas lighter and be frank with the expected outcome of relationship. What is expected cannot be disappointing.

2. Be reassured by holding proofs

By whatever means have some evidence with you for those tasks or events which can change later so that you are not at fault

3. Never reveal them any confidential information