How to solve any problem: Catch them young
Problems are universal. Like death, which lays its icy hands on kings too, so are problems which come unabated for beggars to billionaires. Like seeds growing into a tree, every problem has a growth to it. Before every problem snow balls into an avalanche it is better to catch them young. If one could observe deeper, there will be always signs and symptoms which starts to appear before things go out of control. It is only in these signs and symptoms can we take actions to arrest the problem. Life problems among humans can be broadly classified into the following four types:
- Financial problems
- Health problems
- Relationship problems
- Technical problems
One can also anticipate problems, which is excellent to have as it can prevent problems before they could happen. For this it requires familiarity. But sometimes we enter into untested waters where only being observant of signs and symptoms can only help as given below.
- Financial problems
Financial problems in human life happens due to three reasons. One is being a copy cat, another is having friends with benefits and and finally being overconfident. Being a copy cat is comparing oneself with another with the way of living and spending more than ones means. Having friends with benefits is having circle of friends who are there only for the benefits. Being a overconfident person means exaggerating ones ability to take unwanted risks and falling into a difficult situation.
The signs and symptoms:
For the copy cat, it can be easily noticeable that the mismatch between earning and living will be of great difference. People spending beyond their means implies to live a lavish life comparing themselves with those who can really afford the lifestyle. They just want to show off that they are earning more by spending more but in fact they are just increasing the debt.
Having friends with benefits isn’t advisable at all. It is said that most of the friends are there for benefits and when the benefits wane so does the circle of friends. That’s why it is advisable to establish friendships based on character which is long lasting. People over spend for friends for the sake of pride, who are themselves there only for the…