Humans with saccharine minds: Sweet tongues and poisonous hearts
What can I say about their drama?
Have you ever encountered someone who approaches you only when they need you and disappear after their purpose is met? Have you met someone who praises you at your face but bad mouths you at your back? Have you met someone who says how someone was so good with them so that you also behave the same with them by putting peer pressure on you? The above three questions are some of the important characteristics of a person with saccharine (unpleasantly over-polite) mind and their care is only about themselves and their intension is only to use you to meet their ulterior motives. What can we do about them?
Some of the strategies to handle them include
- Being careful when someone comes closer or goes farther
- Buy time to investigate more
- Be courageous to say no
Lets see how to apply these strategies in reality.
- Being careful when someone comes closer or goes farther
It can be noted that some people will be so silent in our lives only to notice them pop up suddenly from no where to start enquiring and praising us. Very shortly their true intensions will be released in the form of a favor. May be the last time they contacted you was…